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Musings from An Evolving Mind

HOLIDAY STRESS – ONE UNUSUAL PRACTICE TO REDUCE IT

The holidays are upon us and along with decorating, shopping and baking cookies comes a tremendous amount of unwanted STRESS! It’s the most beautiful time of the year and we are filled with STRESS!!! Some of it is about getting everything done in the time we have to do it; but there is a much bigger, silent cause of stress going on that we may not even be aware of. We are all playing the “comparison game” in our minds. The game is going on all the time and it is absolutely exhausting. We are silently comparing ourselves to others …

Leadership Transformation

STOP SPINNING IN CIRCLES & GET OFF THAT HAMSTER WHEEL!

I was driving home from work the other night at 5:30pm and suddenly a bird smashed into my windshield. Of course it shocked me and then I felt terrible for that little bird. The clocks had turned back one hour and it was the first evening that it was dark at that time. A friend explained to me that the bird’s internal clocks would still be the same, so he wasn’t used to as much traffic being on the road at that time. Perhaps. Or…. As many of you know I love symbolism; and if a bird smashing into my …

Leadership Transformation

TRANSITION FROM “PEOPLE PLEASER” TO “LEADER” IN 6 EASY STEPS

“If you want to make everyone happy don’t be a leader – Sell Ice Cream.” – Steve Jobs I love Steve Jobs and he wasn’t always liked – in fact the company he started fired him. He wasn’t portrayed as a very “nice” person in the movie about his life. So why do I like a person who wasn’t very nice? Well, he had courage and he was a Leader and he didn’t worry if people liked him or not. Lots of people love reading inspirational quotes and imagine themselves stepping into their leadership potential and being powerful. But making that …

Musings from An Evolving Mind

LISTENING TO YOUR “MIND CHATTER” IS ONE OF THE WORST THINGS YOU CAN DO

I have desperately needed new bedroom furniture for years, literally YEARS. I still had my childhood chest of drawers that followed me from Brooklyn to New York City to Los Angeles to Westchester. It was falling apart (although furniture was much better quality back then – it was my mother’s before it was mine!) and I had a few other pieces that had followed me around to both coasts. My bedroom didn’t feel like a place of soft luxury; it felt like it was just holding place for my stuff. It didn’t feel relaxing to go to bed; it just …

Leadership Transformation

SYNCHRONICITIES – HIDDEN POWERFUL LEADERSHIP GROWTH LESSONS

Recently three people showed up over an hour late to different appointments with me – a business appointment, meeting a friend for dinner, meeting someone for a cocktail. The strange thing was…it happened all in one week. It got me wondering…when people are late it is not as huge a trigger for me as it is for others. I usually have something else to do with me, so that I am not sitting there idly just staring into space. Or I use the opportunity to make new friends. I always have something to do or work on. However, when an …

Leadership Transformation

5 STRATEGIES LEADERS USE TO AVOID CORPORATE BURNOUT FOR THEIR TEAMS

In today’s ever evolving corporate world, the only constant is change. And with change comes learning new technology, new responsibilities, taking on greater workloads and covering roles that may not necessarily fall to you or your team’s area of expertise. Even the most amazing Rock Star Teams BURNOUT – yes whole teams of people burn out! According to the Mayo Clinic, “Job burnout is a special type of work-related stress – a state of physical or emotional exhaustion that also involves a sense of reduced accomplishment and loss of personal identity.” Right now my team and I are teetering on …

Leadership Transformation

YOUR SUPERPOWER IS YOUR GREATEST WEAKNESS

I used to think I had this really special skill. I had a Superpower, I could go Invisible – not literally but in a sense I could fade into the background and become the fly on the wall, the listener. I could take in everyone around me and know all their strengths and weaknesses while never revealing my own. I thought this was powerful. I thought: “I have a Superpower they don’t know about. I can do this thing. I can be Invisible.” While some of these aspects are good skills to possess, (like being an excellent listener) the overall …

Leadership Transformation

TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR NEXT CAREER MOVE – 8 VITAL STEPS TO CLIMBING THE CORPORATE LADDER

Have you been waiting for someone to notice your “greatness?” Often times in business we wait for someone to give us permission to move ahead in our careers. We wait for our manager to notice how hard we are working and then we expect that he or she will have the fabulous idea to promote us. Here’s a tip – your manager is probably focused on his/her own career growth and probably isn’t thinking about yours. When managers don’t have the same thoughts about our careers as we do, we start to blame them for not advancing our careers. “It’s …

Leadership Transformation

10 Tips to Nail Your Job Interview

Enjoy my “expert” advice included in this article with OppLoans! Are you prepared for interviewers to throw you a curveball? Do you have questions of your own ready about the role and the company? How should you dress? Applying for jobs in 2019 is like sitting on a desert island, writing a message, putting that message into a bottle, and then throwing that bottle directly into a black hole. Unless you know someone who works at the company you’re applying to, you’re probably applying through some sort of online portal in exchange for an automated confirmation email. Odds are you’ll …

Leadership Transformation

THE MUST-HAVE INTERVIEW TECHNIQUES & MINDSET NECESSARY TO LAND THAT JOB

For the last 6 months I have been interviewing candidates for an open managerial position on my team and it has been extremely challenging to fill this role. Additionally, over the course of my career, I have interviewed many candidates for open roles on various teams I’ve managed. I have noticed several patterns arising lately that are extremely detrimental to candidates. Hence, I wanted to share the following simple reminders and mindset techniques that interviewees should be using to put themselves miles ahead of the competitors and land that job! #1 – DRESS THE PART This may seem obvious but I …